Friday, October 31, 2008

Ghost Suckers and Ghosting

I say "sucker" and Chris says "lollipop" - let's call the whole thing off. But, oh - if we call the whole thing off, then we must part. And, oh - if we ever part, then that would break my heart.

So, both sucker and lollipop are OK.

The girls and I made ghost suckers (lollipops) last night. You take a round sucker (a Dum-Dum or Tootsie Roll Pop work great) and place it in the center of an open white Kleenex (facial tissue) or dinner napkin. Wrap the tissue or napkin around the top of the sucker. Secure the tissue/napkin with either a rubber band or a small piece of ribbon. Draw eyes and a mouth on the face of the ghost and you are all set!

So - those are the ghosts.

We then put 5 ghosts into several bags, and added a drawing of a ghost and a "poem" about Ghosting. What is Ghosting? It is when you sneak out in the dark of nightfall, dressed all in black, and creep up to a friend's doorstep and ring the doorbell. You leave a little bag or basket of goodies (candy, apples, ghost suckers - whatever you like) and run like heck. The friend opens the door and finds the goodies (they have been Ghosted) and they are instructed to Ghost two more homes. You display the drawing of the ghost in your front window so people know which houses have been hit already.

This was huge a few years ago, and nearly all the houses had the ghost drawing displayed. Most people have now given it up. We never will. LOL!! It is TOO MUCH FUN!! I prepare all the stuff, and Chris and the girls sneak around to a few neighbors. I also drove the girls up to May's first grade teacher's house (which is maybe 15 houses up the street from ours). FUN!

We always tumble back in the house in fits of laughter, after having been STONE QUIET while out. LOL!! It really is fun. If I can figure out how to post the drawing and poem here later, I'll leave it for you all.

In past years, we have driven to Grandma's house, our social worker/friend's house, and other far-away abodes. Not this year. We remembered it tooooooo late. You are supposed to start this at least a week before Halloween.

I had the girls Ghost our own home, too. I went to the door and faked my surprise at the bag of ghost suckers. I thanked the invisible ghost and didn't even hear the muffled giggles from around the corner. No, really - I didn't hear them AT ALL. Seriously.

Here are the ghosts and Ghosters.

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!! It is my favorite holiday!

-Holly


Thursday, October 30, 2008

Another Shiny Quarter

May has been fiddling with one of her top front teeth for about two weeks now. Tonight, she PLEADED with me to tie one end of a string (dental floss) to her tooth and the other to a doorknob. LOL! I refused. I told her that SHE may be ready, but her tooth may NOT be.

But, her Daddy decided otherwise. The two of them sneaked off and did the doorknob thing. Without luck. But, just before sleeping, as I was reading to the girls, May yanked that baby right out of her head! She says, "I guess the tooth WAS ready, because both roots are dissolved." LOL!! That cracked me up.

I told May that the Tooth Fairy should leave this tooth for ME (May always writes a note to the Tooth Fairy and asks to keep her tooth) because I paid for half of it! May had a big and fast-growing cavity between her two front teeth and I had them filled with a white filling. You cannot even tell! Dr. Adam does beautiful work!

So, in the morning, May should have ONE SHINY QUARTER (if she has the same tooth fairy I did) and I should have May's tooth under my pillow. :-)










Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Pajama Day

This is Red Ribbon Week at school. That means fun themes each day to help the kids say "no" to drugs.

Today was the day for wearing pajamas to school. "Turn out the lights on drugs."

I decided to wear my snowman flannel PJs (fun and modest) all day. It was a little warm (mid 60's) for flannel PJs today. Phew! I had a lot of fun inside the school, as I brought a pumpkin to donate to May's class, and May's backpack (she forgot it this morning, and I took pity on her when I took the little girls to school). I am always amazed at how many kids in other classes I know as I make my way through the halls. I have volunteered giving Chinese New Year presentations, and reading library books in the classes, for several years now. The 3rd graders this year also know me from the medical exam in the Immigration unit. I just love these fantastic kids and this fantastic school!

May wore her pink Disney Princesses PJs. Irene wore her PJs with frogs and moons. Jane had on PJs with sock monkeys (I love those!).

Here we 4 are in our jammies (I am normally a Clinton Mama for Obama, but today I was a Pajama Mama for Obama. LOL!):


Pigtails

When I was a girl, pigtails were braided and ponytails were not braided. Now, they just call braids "braids."

The girls have been on quite a braids kick lately. I am thankful that my Arthur is far less painful in my hands than in my knees! LOL!

My girls all want curly hair. Isn't that always the way? The staight-haired girls want curly and the curly-haired girls want straight. My girls love the waves that remain after the braids are removed. They want to sleep in braids so they can awaken to curly hair. LOL!

Here are two pics of May's pigtails/braids the other morning. She had gotten up early and picked a jeans jumper, with jeans underneath, and a jeans jacket. She wanted her hair "just so." I kidded her that she must be campaigning, because she looked so great! (She is running for Mayor in her classroom's "town.")

(The girls all dress themselves and pick their own clothes. Usually, with success, as I am constantly complimented on how they look. The other day, Janie picked a purple top and purple pants. Good, right? Each had a very playful snowflake print. To me - one print and one solid. The Rule. I could NOT convince Jane of that. LOL! So, off she went to school with her mismatched snowflake top and snowflake pants -- and a STRUT and a BIG SMILE. That is worth more to me than matching clothing. Did I mention that she dug the top out of the back of her closet and the sleeves were about 4 inches too short?)

May has always had a hard time "posing" a smile. These two pics show that clearly. LOL!

My daughters are my treasures.

-Holly


Saturday, October 25, 2008

Pumpkin Patch and Corn Maze

A week ago we went to a fabulous pumpkin farm in Vineland, Colorado (to the southeast of Pueblo). http://www.pantaleofarms.com/greatpumpkin2.html
The weather was perfect. Everyone was in a great mood. The day was just wonderful!

They had several inflatable fun things (haunted house, slide, jump castle) that Irene and May loved! Janie spent lots of time taking her shoes off, nearly summoning the courage to try one, and then changing her mind and putting her shoes back on. Sweet girl.

Chris and May did their annual tradition of a trip through the corn maze. Normally, they are out in 20-28 minutes. This year, it took them over an hour! Irene, Jane and I wound our way through the pumpkins to the end of the corn maze and waited for Daddy and May. Everyone who came out of the maze this year was SOOOO happy and relieved! It was hilarious! Moms holding babies were thanking God breathlessly. LOL! Teen-aged boy threw themselves on the ground in mock relief and happiness at the end of it! LOL! Middle-aged women arrived arm-in-arm and nearly cheering! LOL! I swear, it was too funny. Finally, May and Chris emerged. They were also happy and relieved - and told us about how HARD the maze was this year (our third year visiting this farm).

We picked out 7 pumpkins, ranging from big and round and orange (me) to tiny and green and oval (May)! Even a couple that had hourglass figures. LOL!

I love this place because it is real. You have to walk through dried mud, snarly vines, and sometimes even get to break your pumpkin off the vine! (Note that in one of the pictures, Janie holds up a tiny pumpkin still attached to the vine.) The corn maze is long done and the corn that is left in the stalks is dried. Irene was FASCINATED by this. She found one on the ground and played with it for the longest time. They grow all kinds of other produce, and the roasting of the green chilis smells sooooooooo good! They had horse rides and hay wagon rides, and loads of other amusing things. It was so much fun! But -we are there for the pumpkins and corn maze most of all.

There were large flocks of migrating birds that periodically blackened large parts of the sky above us. They looked so lovely above the corn maze.

On the drive home, we passed many agricultural fields filled with various things. One that caught my eye had MANY sunflowers! I had to take a couple dozen shots of that alone! They are so amazing looking! They always seem to have personalities to me. We have a children’s book about some kids who plant a circle of sunflowers one summer and play and sleep out among the huge flowers. Then, fall comes and the sunflowers fade away. But, they keep some seeds to plant the following year. It is a lovely book.

Is there anything more beautiful than a pile of pumpkins in your kitchen after a fun trip to the pumpkin patch?

-Holly




May's Minute of Fame

A girl in May's school called 911 when her mom had a stroke. Members of the sheriff's department came and held an assembly, where the girl received an award and they put on a presentation about calling 911 in emergencies. Very cool! The local news media covered the event. The back of May's head got about a minute (probably way less) on TV! Can you pick her out? She is in the center of the shot and has a white shirt on. To her left is my possible future son-in-law. ;-) I always like seeing them spending time together. Dear me - I am realizing that I have arranged two future marriages for May inside my head, as I have already promised her to the son of a friend who was our adoption facilitator/guide in China when we adopted May. Hmmmmm ...

Here is May's TV performance. (Jerri - another picture I took off the TV!) It is amazing to me how many of the kids I can identify from the back of their heads! LOL!

Friday, October 24, 2008

Super Bee's Overnight Stay

Irene's Kindergarten class has a class mascot that ties into the IB efforts of the entire school. IB = International Baccalaureate. It is a program that teaches a responsible, peaceful, honest, accepting, and harmoneously strong way to be in the world. (I made that description up! Pretty good, huh? LOL!)

You can see more about IB here:

Irene was the first student in her class to be able to take Super Bee home over night! Very cool. She is working soooooo hard. I am incredibly proud of her! Think of all she has learned since joining our family in August of 2007.

The kids were concentrating on Communication and Tolerance this past week. You all know that I much prefer Acceptance over Tolerance. But, I will TOLERATE the term "Tolerance." Hee!

Here are some pics of Super Bee and her visit (she learned to work the play drill very quickly!), and the documents that she brought with her:






Pumpkin Patch Pictures

I have worked hard on weeding them down in number to just the VERY best photos.

I have 43.
It was a VERY good day for VERY good photos. LOL! :-)

Hmmmmm ... I want to post all 43, but the (ahem) dial-up users among us may squawk at me. LOL! ;-) Maybe I will post them in small size and let you all click on them to see a larger size if you like. I normally post photos in large size.


Thinking.
Here is a teaser photo of Irene and Jane. Aren't they yummy??

Off to take Janie for her annual exam with her Pediatrician. And, swing by to see about early voting.

-Holly

A Short Trip to The Black Hole

(I have been pondering. If you have TIME to read this LONG entry, you are welcome. If not, go on your merry way now. Here is a peek into what floats through my brain ... )

So. I feel better. Not just my throat (it was not strep) but my mental health.

I speak pretty freely about my past bouts with Depression (I speak pretty freely about everything, except confidential things about my clients and secrets I keep for people - I can hear some of you agreeing with me here. And, you do not need to say who you are or what the secret is. I never will. Bank on it.).

I do not call it "my Depression" any more, because I refuse to own it. It is free to LEAVE and NEVER EVER return. It is not mine. :-) (I did this same approach with the past bouts with trigeminal neuralgia - oh that is a fancy pants name for EXTREME facial pain caused by the fifth cranial nerve - supposedly the worst pain known to humankind - that there is no cure for ... and I have not had a visit from that EVIL ONE for a long, long time now. Shhhhhhh ...let's not wake the sleeping giant. Tip-toe away with me now.)

But, I digress (what else is new??).

Some people are uncomfortable speaking about mental health. Why??? We go to our regular doctors without shame. We visit the dentist. We see the OB/GYN. We get all kinds of surgeries and even do PT. Why not take care of our mental health without shame?? I am a HUGE advocate for things I am passionate about. Healthwise, that includes taking care of reproductive health and mental health.

Did I digress again? Shame on me.

So. There must be some medical explanation for why I tend to feel Depression when I am physically ill. Maybe it is the extended period of "down time" in a normally active and energetic person? Maybe it is all the time spent at home, healing (not leaving the house has been linked with Depression in my past). Maybe it is all the sleeping that I do when on the mend to restored physical health? (Sleeping too much is THE #1 symptom of my past experiences with Depression. As you all may know by now, I do not normally sleep a lot. And, I have a very high function level with a very low sleep level.)

The past few days I have had my really horrible fall leaf allergic reaction thing (that is a medical term). During this down time for my physical body, my mind has been playing ... Maybe I will not live long enough to see my children grow up? Maybe I will become financially destitute and homeless? What is that pain? Is it something medically serious? Maybe I will die? Maybe I should change careers? "They" say that real estate is really bad BAD B-A-D right now. What in the HECK else would I do for income?? Seriously. What? If you know - email me. LOL! Or leave a Comment.

My brain played around in the old and familiar Black Hole. Thankfully, for a very short time!

Then, this evening I cooked a big pot of hearty soup. I ran the dishwasher. Twice. I did a couple of loads of laundry. I started decorating for Halloween with my 3 fun and active daughters. And, it occured to me ... I was feeling BETTER!

My mind followed the lead of my body and IT began to function better, as well. I am still young! I will be 50 in December. That is not old! I am healthy (normally). I do not believe my death is pending any time soon. I have hundreds of clients whom I have served well in the past and who like me - even some who actually love me! I will sell more real estate! Things are FAR better here than in other areas of the country! I will live to see my kids grow and have kids of their own. Financial abundance ebbs and flows. As does the size of one's thighs. I hereby advise you -- don't get too attached to the current state of either one (size of bank account or size of thighs) because --it will change!

Love the skin you are in.

Be happy with today and work toward a better tomorrow.

Treat and beat feet.

Pray and take action.

Keep on keepin' on! :-)

Take a breath, Holly.

Who are your safety nets? If you need a tire changed, who do you call? If you need a loan, who can you count on? If you parented your kids in a less than lovely way, who can you tell? If you are tired and need a laugh, who do you contact? If you need to change something you have commited to, who could fill in for you? If you have too much work, who can be trusted to lighten your load? I was pondering all of this as I cooked dinner and got all that other Home Care stuff cranked up again.

All the recent events surrounding us (financial stress, stock market, bail outs, lay offs, mortgage rates, failed banks. mergers, ARM mortgage adjustments, presidential campaign lies and attempts at fear and blame, and so many more) make us NEED our safety nets all the more.

Get yours in place. And, don't forget to list YOURSELF as your safety net!

It brings to mind a line from the movie "Nim's Island" (I love that movie, BTW!) that says, "Be the hero of your own life."

If there is anything GOOD to be had from current times (I believe there is a LOT of good!) I think it will include a lessening of this crazy Mommy Competition that young moms have these days. It is nuts. Who can be thinnest? Have the biggest SUV? The biggest (most expensive) house? The most mortgage debt? The whitest teeth? Volunteer the most till they are in tears? Never say "NO!" ? The kids with the latest gadgets, sports gear and birthday party? The right school for their kids? Enough trips to the gym? And, more and MORE and M-O-R-E.

Maybe times will force ... less. Less. Stop. Enough. Take a breath. You are PERFECT -- in this moment. THIS very moment. Believe it! You are enough - without all the stuff!

There are many of you reading this right now who are my safety nets in so many ways - big and small. You know who you are. I thank you. I truly TRULY thank you. You save me. You support me. You get me to the other side. You dry my wings till I can fly on my own again.

I watched that crazy Flying Walenda Guy (I am sure he would love me saying that) the other day as he walked across a tightrope and rode a bicycle back something like 12 stories up in the air WITHOUT A NET. I don't get it. Where is the shame in having a net in place??

So. You -- yes, YOU ... if I can ever be a safety net to you, please let me be. Show up with your real self. It is fine. You are welcome. Here is a net ...

(Oh. That brings to mind a funny memory. The first time we attended our church, they were in the midst of a sermon series called "Gone Fishin' " and the minister was preaching in fishing gear! She cracked me UP! At one point in her talk, she called for "a net" and a woman came rushing up to the pulpit. Everyone laughed! And, I learned that the woman's name was ANNETTE. LOL!!! Snort. For some reason, I recall that moment over and over and over with great delight each time. That was when I knew for sure I had found the perfect spiritual home for myself and my family.)

Humor is so healing and healthful. If that is not spiritual, and "of God" I do not know what is.

So, now you have invested all this time and read clear to ----->> here.

I hope it was worth it! LOL! :-)

Love to all.
(I say that a lot. I was pondering THAT, too. I say it to people I truly do love and I also say it to people who I don't even know. The former get my Love and the latter get my wish that Love visits them. Does that make sense? I am such a weirdo. I once sent a fax to my OB/GYN and signed it "Love, Holly" many years ago. But, I do love that OB/GYN. Without him, I would not have my 3 lovely and perfect ADOPTED daughters. That is another story for another blog post.)

I could fill a book.

Or, at least a blog.

Nighty night. And, thanks for being there.
-Holly

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Allergy or Strep?

So. Last year I found out that I have a pretty strong allergy to decomposing fall leaves. But, I love the fall. Love it. I cannot stay out of leaves and pumpkin patches. This year, after a day of leaf gathering, another day at a pumpkin patch, and another day with LOTS of time spent arranging leaves and laminating lots of bookmarks with leaves inside them for my children's school friends and teachers, I got sick. Of course. No biggie. Just an allergy, right? I have a horribly stuffy nose, low fever (comes and goes) and I am tired beyond tired. But, I figure it will pass.

Until tonight. My throat hurts. That is the understatement of the year. I took a flashlight and looked into my aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh throat and discovered that the whole thing is swollen. I have two tiny slits for accessing air. There is a lot of red and white - all I need is blue and I could have a patriotic throat! ha.

SO. Throat culture tomorrow??

I have never had strep throat before. Ever. I have had MANY exposures to it - for sure. But, I never got it. Ever.

Now -- why wouldn't anyone else in my family have this if it is strep??

I think I need Dr. House.

Oh. And, it is blizzarding here. OK. Maybe not blizzarding, but snowing sideways. The girls did the Snow Day Dance before bed, just as it started to snow. It is waaaaaaaaay to early in the season for a Snow Day! PLUS -- we just got off of two weeks of Fall Break, forgoodnesssake. Sheesh.

Back to the camomile tea. Ouch.

Marathon Man

Chris ran the Denver Marathon on Sunday and finished just under 5.5 hours! WOO HOO!!!!! The course took the runners through the major mid-city parks (starting at Civic Park, then Cheesman Park, CityPark, Washington Park, and ending up back at Civic Center Park.) The girls and I were there to cheer him on at the finish line. As part of his package, he got small cow bells for his supporters to ring. We had a lot of fun ringing those things like MAD for each runner we got to see cross the finish line. Chris had a bad leg cramp at mile 21 and one of the race supporters gave him a potassium/sodium pill. I think that if he would not have had that cramp, he would have come in under 5 hours. I think that running a marathon in ANY length of time is AMAZING! GREAT JOB, CHRIS!! (Click on the picture to see a larger version. You can also right click to save a copy of any photo on my blog.)

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Colin Powell Endorces Barack Obama for President

Just in case any of you missed it, here is a paste of my favorite AP news story of the day (WA-HOO!!!!)
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WASHINGTON – Colin Powell, a Republican and retired general who was President Bush's first secretary of state, broke with the party Sunday and endorsed Democrat Barack Obama for president, calling him a "transformational figure" while criticizing the tone of John McCain's campaign.

The former Joint Chiefs of Staff chairman said either senator is qualified to be commander in chief. But after studying both, he concluded that Obama is better suited than McCain, the standard-bearer of Powell's own party, to handle the nation's economic problems and help improve its world standing.

"It isn't easy for me to disappoint Sen. McCain in the way that I have this morning, and I regret that," Powell said on NBC's "Meet the Press," where he announced the endorsement and delivered a serious blow to the aspirations of his longtime friend, Arizona Sen. McCain.
But, Powell added: "I think we need a transformational figure. I think we need a president who is a generational change and that's why I'm supporting Barack Obama, not out of any lack of respect or admiration for Sen. John McCain."

The endorsement by Powell amounted to a stunning rejection of McCain, a 26-year veteran of Congress and a former Vietnam prisoner of war who has campaigned as the experienced, tested candidate who knows how to keep the country safe.

Powell's endorsement has been much anticipated because of his impressive foreign policy credentials, a subject on which Obama, a first-term senator from Illinois, is weak. Powell is a Republican centrist popular among moderate voters.

At the same time, Powell is a black man and Obama would be the nation's first black president — a goal Powell considered pursuing for himself in 1996, before deciding not to run. Powell said he was cognizant of the racial aspect of his endorsement, but said that was not the dominant factor in his decision.

Powell expressed disappointment in the negative tone of McCain's campaign, his choice of Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin as a running mate and their decision to focus in the closing weeks of the contest on Obama's ties to 1960s-era radical William Ayers, saying "it goes too far."

A co-founder of the Weather Underground, which claimed responsibility for nonfatal bombings in the United States during the Vietnam War-era, Ayers is now a college professor who lives in Obama's Chicago neighborhood. He and Obama also served together on civic boards in Chicago.
"This Bill Ayers situation that's been going on for weeks became something of a central point of the campaign," Powell said. "But Mr. McCain says that he's a washed-out terrorist. Well, then, why do we keep talking about him?"

Powell said McCain's choice of Palin raised questions about judgment.

"She's a very distinguished woman, and she's to be admired. But at the same time, now that we have had a chance to watch her for some seven weeks, I don't believe she's ready to be president of the United States, which is the job of the vice president," he said. "And so that raised some question in my mind as to the judgment that Sen. McCain made."

In an interview Sunday with New York's WWOR-TV, Palin responded: "I beg to differ with him. Not only will my executive experience be put to very good use ... but also, you know the vision that I share with John McCain."

McCain seemed dismissive of Powell's endorsement, saying he had support from four other former secretaries of state, all veterans of Republican administrations: Henry Kissinger, James A. Baker III, Lawrence Eagleburger and Alexander Haig.

"Well, I've always admired and respected Gen. Powell. We're longtime friends. This doesn't come as a surprise," McCain said on "Fox News Sunday."

Asked whether the endorsement would undercut his campaign's assertion that Obama is not ready to lead, McCain said, "Well, again, we have a very, we have a respectful disagreement, and I think the American people will pay close attention to our message for the future and keeping America secure."

Powell also said he was troubled that some Republicans — he excluded McCain — continue to say or allow others to say that Obama is a Muslim, when he is a Christian. Such rhetoric is polarizing, he said.

"He's always been a Christian. But the really right answer is, what if he is? Is there something wrong with being a Muslim in this country? The answer's no, that's not America," Powell said. "Is there something wrong with some 7-year-old Muslim-American kid believing that he or she could be president?"

Obama called Powell to thank him for the endorsement, Obama spokesman Robert Gibbs said.
"I am beyond honored and deeply humbled to have the support of Gen. Colin Powell," Obama said at a rally in Fayetteville, N.C. "Gen. Powell has defended this nation bravely, and he has embodied our highest ideals through his long and distinguished public service. ... And he knows, as we do, that this is a moment where we all need to come together as one nation — young and old, rich and poor, black and white, Republican and Democrat."

Powell said he remains a Republican, even though he sees the party moving too far to the right. He supports abortion rights and affirmative action, and said McCain and Palin, both opponents of abortion, could put two more conservative justices on the Supreme Court.

"I would have difficulty with two more conservative appointments to the Supreme Court, but that's what we'd be looking at in a McCain administration," Powell said.

Powell chaired the Joint Chiefs of Staff, the nation's top military post, during the first Gulf war under President George H.W. Bush. As secretary of state, he helped make the case before the United Nations for the U.S.-led invasion of Iraq, launched in March 2003.

Powell said the nation's economic crisis provided a "final exam" of sorts for both candidates, suggested McCain had failed the test.

"I found that he was a little unsure as to how to deal with the economic problems that we were having," Powell said. "Almost every day there was a different approach to the problem and that concerned me, sensing that he doesn't have a complete grasp of the economic problems that we had."

In contrast, Powell said Obama "displayed a steadiness, an intellectual curiosity, a depth of knowledge and an approach to looking at problems ... . I think that he has a, a definitive way of doing business that would serve us well."
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Saturday, October 18, 2008

Fall Leaves

Fall Break is winding down. Today we go to the pumpkin patch. Photos will follow (of course!). A few days ago, I took the girls to a local park (local meaning a 35-40 minute drive away) to gather fall leaves for some craft projects.

Many of the leaves on the trees had not yet turned, but were badly damaged from the cold nights we are having now. We still had a lot of fun, and got some great leaves! Here are some photos from that day. May took the last one to prove that I was there, too! LOL!

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

God is SO Good ...

(Subtitle: ... and I am an IDIOT!)

Preface: There is no one to blame here. I am responsible for the safety of my children. I do not think ill of ANYONE involved in what I am going to talk about here. There is no blame. None.)

Well. I have talked a lot about Politics on this blog lately. I may as well go into the other "taboo topic of conversation" -- Religion!

I believe in God. No. Strike that. I know for sure there is a God. Period.

Why? Read on.

Janie has a SEVERE allergy to the class of drugs that is called NSAIDS. The primary drugs included in this class are ibuprofen and asprin. There is a VERY long list of drugs that are NSAIDS. We only give Janie Tylenol products and Benedryl. And, it is SO VERY HARD for me to even give those to her. I would prefer it if she never had to have ANY medicine.

How do we know she has this SEVERE allergy? In February of 2006, when we had Janie home from China for just under two months, and she was not even 2.5 years of age, she had a cold. When I put her to bed, I gave her a TINY amount (1/4 teaspoon - a teeny amount) of children's cold and cough syrup - containing ibuprofen. Yes, it was in the NSAIDS class of drugs.

45 minutes later, we were in the Emergency Room with her. She had a SEVERE anaphylactic (sp??) reaction.

At that point in time, our rural area did not have good emergency service. Things have improved since then! But, at that time the best thing to do was drive like a bat out of He// and get her to the ER. I drove and Chris sat in the back seat between May and Jane's carseats. He was trained as an EMT years ago, and so I trust his judgment on medical emergencies. He encouraged me to drive FAST as he watched Janie's condition worsen.

The guy who was in charge of Triage at the ER (Dave) pulled me aside after Janie had been treated for a while (they rushed us right in IMMEDIATELY when we arrived at the ER) and told me that this was a TRUE emergency and we had done the exact right thing in getting her treatment. He was so serious and stone-faced. I imagine he sees everything from A to Z. Being the Triage guy, he knows how to sort out the true emergencies. Janie was admitted to the hospital and kept over night (I stayed with her). She had IVs and various monitors and was in one of those giant metal cribs that hospitals have. It was terrifying. The scariest event I have ever experienced. We got a prescription for an Epi-Pen, and we have carried one with us everywhere Janie is ever since that time.

ANYWAY -- so, in February of 2006 we learned that Janie is allergic to NSAIDS. (She underwent a series of allergy testing right after that, just in case she had any other allergies. She had a moderate allergy to tomatoes and also to corn. She hates both of these, and so avoiding them is easy. Except for all the corn products added to ... well ... EVERYTHING ... but, that allergy has lessened with time.)

Flash to tonight. The girls all went to a birthday party. It was close to our house, so I sent them alone. Once it got dark, I walked over to the party so they wouldn't have to walk home alone in the dark. The party was still in full swing, and so I pitched in on the craft/project. We built little rocket ships out of construction paper, glue, and empty film cannisters. No biggie, right?

We took them to the garage and the driveway and had a BLAST putting water and a half a tablet of Alka Selzer in the film cannisters and watching the construction paper tops ZOOM off once the fizzing made the cap pop off the film cannister. We did this OVER and OVER and OVER. It was a lot of fun!!

Wait a minute. Back that bus up.

ALKA SELZER. On the NSAIDS list.

This is God --right here -- Janie is pretty timid. I am constantly working with her to get her to be more daring and brave. But, I also give in and cover for her when I can see she is extra worried. She seemed very leary about the little rockets, and so I helped her with hers and I placed the half an Alka Selzer into her rocket and put it down to explode. She stood far away from it. That was the only one she wanted to do. I went on to help several of the other kids do their rockets over and over. Both May and Irene set theirs off several times each. May, Irene and I handled the Alka Selzer many times, but Janie never touched it.

THAT is God.

Once the party was over and we got home, the girls were putting on their PJs. Janie was scratching her hip/rear end and I took a look and saw that she had hives. This is not too unusual for Janie. She used to get HORRIBLE hives any time she felt shy, and still occasionally does.

But, then it popped into my IDIOT head -- ALKA SELZER! NSAIDS!

By that time, Janie had a large patch of bright red and super-itchy hives under her chin -- all along her jaw line from ear to ear. I was already putting hydrocortizone (sp??) creme on her hip/rear and so I put a lot on her neck/jaw, too. I also gave her a dose of Benedryl and got an Epi-Pen handy (meaning RIGHT BY ME). I spoke calmly to May and Irene about how if I said to get shoes and coats and get in the car, they were to do it immediately.

May clearly remembers when we all went to the ER with Janie in 2006. So, she KNEW this was serious.

I took all our clothes, jackets, shoes, etc. and got them into the wash. May, Irene and I washed every surface (including ourselves) that we thought had been around the fizzing Alka Selzer. I vacuumed.

I put Janie on the couch beside me and I read books to May and Irene. Jane was fast asleep from the Benedryl by that time. May and Irene headed to bed and I stood (stand) watch beside Jane.

She is FINE. (That is also God.) The hives on her neck/jaw are nearly gone now. There is NO swelling of her lips/face/jaw/neck (the sign of anaphylactic -sp??-shock).

Both May and I prayed our THANKS to God for Jane's safety and timidity. Both May and I prayed for Janie to stay well.

So far, so good.

But, I know I will not sleep tonight until all that laundry is done and all traces of NSAIDS are gone again.

Even though I have washed my face three times, I keep imagining the salty taste of Alka Selzer when I lick my lips. I know it is not really there. But, my worried-Mama brain says it is there. I have not kept any Alka Selzer in my home since February of 2006. The ONLY NSAID class drug I keep is the ibuprofen I use for my knees. And, it is kept in a child-proof bottle out of Janie's reach. Oh - I have a small tube of teething jell that I sometimes use on May's cankor (sp???) sores. That is an NSAID, too. It is kept on the top shelf of the pantry - far out of Janie's access.

Janie knows of her allergy and KNOWS that she is NEVER EVER to take medicine unless Mom or Dad give it to her. Period. You can test her on this. She will NOT take medicine from anyone.

Why am I writing this out to you all? I am not sure. I know that when the event of February 2006 happened and I wrote it all out, it helped to save at least two other children who had similar anaphylactic (I really should learn how to spell that, since I write to this blog with NO spell check!) attacks. Perhaps my writing today is just to say, "Stay alert!" Maybe it is YOU who needs to hear this? Keep it in the back of your mind.

I am looking over at my beloved angel Janie right now. She is sleeping soundly and with full health. I am so beyond grateful. Thank you, God.

-Holly

Mail-in Ballot needs extra postage

In our county in Colorado, the mail-in ballot requires $0.59 to be mailed. It is not too heavy, but it is an odd size.

It would be heart-breaking to have your VOTE returned to you with insufficient postage after the election.

YOUR VOICE is worth an extra stamp! Slap TWO first class stamps on that mail-in ballot.

-Holly

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Mei Mei Club Halloween Party

There is a local culture club for girls Kindergarten aged and older who were adopted in China. The girls meet monthly for fun and bonding. They had their Halloween party on Saturday. It was mostly to be held outdoors (haunted walk, trick or treat trees, hay ride, etc.) and it was cold and humid that evening. With my knees, I asked Chris if he would take May and Irene. They had a blast! From the stories and photos, it must have been a great party! The ones of May bobbing for apples crack me up! LOL! She discovered quickly that going for the long-stemmed apples was key! But, she was not afraid to get really wet! You can spot May and Irene easily in the photos by looking for the blue bows in their hair.




Saturday, October 11, 2008

Miracles

I did not know my children at the times of their births. But, I often imagine what they may have been like.

Based on what we know of Jane's birth, her Pediatrician has estimated that she likely weighed somewhere around a pound and a half.

Whenever I see this photo, I wonder if this tiny baby weighs around that much.

Whatever my children's beginnings, their Todays are really amazing. They are strong! They are healthy! The future is theirs to make what they wish. It really is a miracle. Three miracles.
May I more often truly SEE the miracle that each day is.

Replace FEAR With CALM - work on solution

Whenever I help a child who has gotten themselves stuck in something (arm stuck through banister posts and won't come out, jump rope twisted tightly around arm, climbed too high on playground equipment and afraid to come down, etc. - you can imagine the situations) I always tell them this story while I calmly work to free them:

When I was a little girl in 5th grade, I was swinging on the swing set in my backyard. I was alone. I was playing on the rings (not a swing) and somehow got myself all turned upside down and got my feet and legs all tangled up in the chains ABOVE me. I was hanging upside down and I was afraid!! I called and CALLED to my mom to come rescue me! I YELLED out for my mom to come and free me and let me loose! I yelled and yelled -- but no one came. Then, I was MAD. Why wasn't anyone coming to help me? Why wasn't I being rescued? I was afraid. I was still alone. So, I calmed down. Calllllllllllmed down. I reached my hands up toward the chains and got my body up in a higher position, so the chains loostened. I worked myself out of the tangle of chains, and then I jumped down to the ground. I was free! I rescued myself by being CALM and WORKING ON A SOLUTION.

I learned that anything that happens can UNhappen. If you get yourself INTO a fix, you can get yourself OUT of a fix -- if you stay calm and work on a solution.

By this point in my story, the child I am assisting is no longer crying, and sometimes is even laughing! Picturing May, Jane and Irene's MOM in such an entanglement as a KID is a funny image! LOL!

I am hoping that each time I impart this story, and help them get out of their own mess, that each kid learns to STAY CALM AND WORK ON THE SOLUTION the next time they are in a jam.

Every situation you get into, you can get out of.

If you get STUCK you can get UNSTUCK.

I wish I could impart my story to our country's financial leaders and to EVERY person who has a financial investment of any sort in this country. To each person involved in any way with the stock market.

If we would leave the fear and panic, and REMAIN CALM and WORK ON A SOLUTION, then I feel that our country's financial situation would improve immediately.

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

New photos in Sept posts

I posted more details and photos in two posts from September: the one on the final cross country track meet, and the one on Janie's birthday party. There are LOTS and LOTS of photos in the birthday post because several of the Other Mothers read this blog, so I thought they could pull their children's photos off the blog since the CDs I always promise to people never do seem to actually materialize.

I kid my very close friends that they need to bring their blank CDs over and swipe copies of whatever photos they want.

I also dream of a big WAN (Chris tells me that my terminology is old and they are now called VPNs) where my circle of friends and family could access parts of each other's hard drives and pull photos at will.

Go look at the photos. You can see the crazy pinata being built. LOL!

-Holly

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

My Dishwasher

Everyone think good thoughts for our dishwasher. It recently decided that it only needed to steam the dishes and not actually spray them. Ugh. Some foods get steamed off. Some don't. LOL!

I took it all apart (not ALLLLLL apart), cleaned it out, looked at it a lot, made sure nothing was stuck in it anywhere (dish parts, utensils, food particles), tested out various settings/modes, and then ran it empty. I prayed, chanted and did a magic spell on it. May and I held hands, danced and prayed, and sent it healing thoughts.

When I opened it up after running it empty (after verifying that there was NOTHING inside the dishwater), it had a small straw at the bottom of the dishwasher. Where it came from, I have no clue. But, maybe it was lodged somewhere and stopping the sprayer from spraying?

I removed the straw. Then, I loaded it lightly with dishes and did a regular cycle. I left plenty of open space, so the water could spray liberally.

It worked!

My dishwasher appears to be healed!

YAY! Because I have no Spending Plan for a new dishwasher. :-)

-Holly

Monday, October 6, 2008

Indiana Chris

Well. It looks like it could be a few more days before Chris is home from Oregon. He had a little bit of an ordeal getting the final repeater down from the fire he is on. The rain stopped them from being able to get it down until today.

He took a small helicopter (he was flown - he is not a pilot. LOL!) up to a spot that was 3.5 miles from the top of the mountain where the repeater was located. Then, he was to hike in the 3.5 miles and get the repeater and hike back the 3.5 miles and meet the helicopter to fly off the mountain. I had kidded him a couple of days ago NOT to get lost! He told me that was what GPS was for. He would navagate by GPS. OK.

So, today he calls me as he is getting ONTO the helicopter, and then later he calls as he is back off the mountain after the helicopter ride to town. I say, "Did you follow the GPS signal alright?" He says, "Ah, heck no! I just followed THE PATH." LOL!

Indiana Chris. Hee!

We are all looking foward to having him home again. And, at the same time, we are thankful for the income from his national wildland fire-fighting service! And, he just sounds so much more centered and happy.

When he comes home, I just know a full-time 'regular job" is his. I just feel it!

-Holly

I love quotations

"Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else." - Margaret Mead

This made me laugh out loud today. Which I really needed to do.

-Holly

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Logo Ponderings

Is it just me, or does the Obama/Biden logo have the "flavor" of the Pepsi logo? Not enough to make Pepsi mad, but just enough for you to think a little of Pepsi.

I should talk. I own my own real estate company now and our sign design/layout has a "flavor" of RE/MAX. Not enough to make RE/MAX mad (you REALLY don't want to do that!) but enough to give your brain a subtle background association with success. :-)

And, the fact that I was with RE/MAX for about 14 years may have influenced the design somewhat. ;-)

Anyway -- the Obama/Biden logo feels very refreshing to me! LOL! :-)

-Holly

Coming and Going and Toing and Froing

I never typed toing and froing before.

Chris may come home tomorrow from serving on wildfires in Oregon for nearly two weeks.

The girls are now off school for 2 weeks for Fall Break.

I always feel that two weeks is too long for Fall Break. Two days would be fine. But, I theorize that a two week Fall Break serves our divorce-based community/world well. Two weeks in Fall for one parent and two weeks in Spring for the other parent. Perfect.

And, for we parents who are still loving and cohabitating and just trying to keep our heads above water These Days (sigh), where vacations away from home are not in the Spending Plan, we stroke stroke STROKE to keep the kids happy till ... SCHOOL STARTS AGAIN! (yippeeee)

-Holly

Friday, October 3, 2008

A cool thing

www.ted.com

It features video clips from speakers on nearly every topic you can think of. Go see.

-Holly

Words

You know -- politicians are FULL of words. It is part of their jobs. But, I would really (REALLY) love to see politicians that we hear from frequently be able to use words correctly. Or, more fully. Or, at least in a manner that is not embarrassing. (Or, minimally, better than I do! LOL!!)

Examples?

NUCLEAR. (Not nucular, which is a sad metathesis of the correct word, which is nuclear.)

That is a basic word. Really, it is. It goes back to the MOST basic of science lessons. Lessons about what matter is made of: atoms. Let's all travel back to (what? Sixth Grade?) for just a moment. An atom is made of three parts: proton, electron and neutron. The protons and neutrons cluster together in the center of the atom, which is called the nucleus.

You cannot be any sort of "expert" on ENERGY without understanding the basic make-up of an atom. Since nuclear power (energy and weapons) require atomic manipulation, you need to be able to (somewhat) understand it and (definitely) pronounce it.

There is no "Nu-CU-lar" - it is "nu-CLE-ar."

Phew. Got that out.

TOLERANCE vs. ACCEPTANCE

How about Tolerance? Now, I would far rather see Tolerance taught above Hate. Let's get that straight. BUT, tolerance places you and your belief system in a superior position to what you are tolerating. How about replacing Tolerance with Acceptance? Accept the beliefs of others. Accept differing lifestyles. Live beside them and not above them. Accept instead of Tolerate. Tolerance still teaches separation and difference. A position of "One Up" and "One Down." Acceptance teaches Oneness. We really need Oneness.

YA vs. YOU
and FOLKS
(and other junk such as "bless their hearts")

People. Let's please just cut this out. You are not endearing yourself to me by referring to the American public as "ya." ("yuh") You are speaking down. Six pack hockey mom or not, let us speak in an intelligent manner. I am SO sick of hearing "folks" and "ya" from supposedly well-educated political leaders. You are not my drinking buddy. You are not my friend. You are in a position above that. A leadership position. Deserve the respect that should be yours. Speak as if you deserve a position of respect.

OK. I have picked on poor Gov. Palin enough. She is learning. May she continue to do so.

Oh. And, it is OK to lovingly embrace your children. It really is. Or, do hockey moms not do that? At least she didn't check them! LOL! Senator Biden showed more physical warmth to Gov. Palin's children than she did.

A politician stereotypically "kisses a lot of babies." You may as well start with your own. Really. Showing love to your children would endear you to me FAR more than ... well ... anything! :-)

GOVERNOR

OK. Please. We all know that Obama and Biden and McCain are Senators and Palin is a Governor. To beat her with her current title is tiresome. Just TIRESOME.

And, a smile can also be condescending. Why don't you just reach across and pat her on her pretty little head? Sigh. If I see Senator Biden smile less, and hear Governor Palin speak less, my world will be improved!

But, I can TOLERATE them. ;-)

At least they were both well programmed and did not embarrass themselves in any major way. This is good.

Words. I may be picking too much here. But, really -- a debate IS words. Period. If I am not paying close attention to the words of a debate, then I am not present. And, I really want to be present now. It is so important.

-Holly

Thursday, October 2, 2008

A short political message

1 - Please remember to watch the Vice Presidential Debate tonight!

2 - Please remember to REGISTER to vote!
(In Colorado, you have till Monday, October 6)

3 - If you ARE registered, take a moment to CONFIRM that your registration is accurate (name, address. etc.). TIP: If you voted in the Primary and have not moved, you are all set to vote in the General on November 4!

4 - Consider requesting a MAIL-IN BALLOT. Do this NOW. Tomorrow would be great. The lines are forecast to be long. The issues in Colorado (and I imagine in other states as well) are complex. Even with a cheat sheet, it could be confusing.

For me, I love the ritual of voting in person. I have voted with a lever, with a poke out the paper card, with coloring circles, and with electronic touch screen. To me, being THERE in person is part of the process. I do not care how long the lines are. I am going to "stay on the bus" till I get there.

Consider becoming an Election Judge. I used to do this before we had kids and it was fun and interesting! Call your county and find out about it. You are needed!

Use your brain. Listen to your heart. Don't just "vote your party." NEVER simply "vote your parents' party." Really BELIEVE in your choice. LISTEN tonight. Really REALLY hear the two people who wish to be "second in line" for the important job of the President of the United States. Think. Open your ears and your mind to both people. Listen.

I think it is amazing that either one of these intelligent men (OBAMA or McCain) still wish to head up this place. Amazing. Balls of steel. (pardon me.)

Count me among the "ANYONE OTHER THAN MORE OF THE SAME!!" camp.

REGISTER!! VOTE!!

How to get Sharpie off wood

This "tip" comes to mind today because the crowns the kids made at Janie's BD party as a craft were decorated with varous things, including glitter markers. They got marker all over the coffee table. (No biggie!) And, when my girls put their crowns face down on the hardwood floor in our home's entryway, the marker was "shared" with the floor. :-)

So. Here is one of my favorite house-caring tips.

HOW TO REMOVE SHARPIE FROM WOOD (tables, floors, etc.)

You need two things:
1. Target store brand Flushable Toddler Wipes (the wipes are flushable, not the toddlers)
They come in a blue and green plastic wrapper and are priced around $1.27 per package. These are good for LOTS of things.

2. A can of aerosol hairspray.
I use TRESemme' brand Tres Two ultra fine mist. Works great!

Spray the markings on the wood with hairspray. The mark will appear brighter for a moment. Don't panic. Wipe the hairspray off with a Target toddler wipe. Use both sides, so you get all the hairspray off.

WHA-LA! No more Sharpie, or other marker.

One time when May was 2, she colored on her new lavendar colored summer pants with a ball-point pen. There were marks ALLLLLLL over the legs of the pants. I lay them out flat and sprayed them with hairspray and the marks disappeared. I washed the pants as usual and they were good as new.

Another time, when she was 3, she got a Sharpie and was coloring at the kitchen table (wood) with it. She decided the table needed embellishment. That table was harder to get clean (maybe teak is harder to clean?) but I did eventually get all the Sharpie off.

I hope this tip is of some use to someone. Perhaps someone whose wood has been embellished by the crowns made at Janie's birthday party? Um. Sorry.

-Holly